Posted by Laura Shaw Allen on 28th Jul 2025
Trust That Builds Connection
The Glue That Holds Us Together
Real connection requires trust. Not just trust in others—but trust in ourselves to show up as we are. We often think people will love us more if we’re polished, agreeable, and easy. But the true connection doesn’t grow from perfection—it grows from presence.
Trust is the invisible thread that makes people feel safe around us. It says, “You can be real here. I will be too.”
Small Acts, Big Impact
You don’t need grand gestures to build trust. It’s in the follow-through. The tone of your voice. The willingness to listen when it would be easier to escape into distraction.
It’s choosing to be present—a reflection of the Touch Key. That quiet, physical grounding that lets people feel you’re with them, not just beside them.
It’s eye contact that doesn’t waver.
It’s the hand you place on a shoulder during grief.
It’s the warmth in your voice when someone is sharing something hard.
These are the signals that say, “You’re safe with me.”
Rebuilding When It’s Been Shaken
Trust can crack in any relationship. But the good news is—it can also be repaired. When someone shows you they’re willing to do the work, believe them. And when you’re the one offering the repair, don’t underestimate the power of your consistency.
Even if you’ve missed the mark before, it’s never too late to rebuild with presence, with care, with intention.
Journal Prompt
What small gesture could I offer this week that would strengthen trust in a relationship I care about?
Choose one relationship where you want to deepen trust. Don’t overthink it. Show up. Speak gently. Be present. Let your energy say, “You matter.”