Presence Builds Power: Finding Your Confidence in the Now

Posted by Laura Shaw Allen on 15th Sep 2025

Presence Builds Power: Finding Your Confidence in the Now

When your mind races ahead to all the “what ifs,” confidence feels far away. You start overthinking, replaying worst-case scenarios, and doubting your ability to handle what’s ahead.

But the truth is, you don’t need to solve everything right now. You just need to return to this moment — because that’s where your clarity, confidence, and power actually live.


Why the Present Moment Restores Confidence

The present moment strips away noise.

  • You stop carrying yesterday’s mistakes.
  • You stop pre-living tomorrow’s problems.
  • You can focus fully on the step in front of you.

When you’re present, your brain and body get the signal: I’m safe right now. From that place, you think more clearly and act more decisively.

3 Grounding Practices (5 Minutes Total)

1. The 4–6 Breath Reset

Inhale through your nose for 4 counts.
Exhale through your mouth for 6 counts.
Repeat 5 times.

This slows your heart rate and sends your nervous system a “calm” signal.

2. Name 3 True Things

Look around and name three things you can see, hear, or feel.

“I see sunlight on my desk. I hear my pen on paper. I feel my feet on the floor.”

This anchors you in reality instead of letting your thoughts drift to fear or doubt.

3. Single-Task the Next 10 Minutes

Pick one small action and do only that for 10 minutes — no multitasking. The goal is completion, not perfection. This builds trust in your ability to focus and follow through.

Visualize from the Now (Not from Worry)

Visualization isn’t just about picturing the future — it’s about picturing it from a grounded, present state.

  • See yourself already in action.
  • Imagine feeling calm, capable, and clear as you do it.
  • Let that feeling guide your next step today.

Positivity Keys Exclusive Affirmation

“In this moment, I am exactly who I need to be.”

Use it as a mental “reset button” when your thoughts start running ahead of you.

Your 7-Day Presence Plan

For the next 7 days:

  • Start the day with the 4–6 breath reset.
  • Name 3 true things when stress shows up.
  • Single-task for 10 minutes before lunch.

See how much more grounded, confident, and effective you feel.

If these presence practices make a difference in just a few minutes a day, imagine what they can do when they’re part of a complete daily empowerment system.

That’s exactly what I’ll walk you through in the Becoming You on-demand webinar:

  • How to combine grounding habits with intentional action
  • The mindset shifts that keep you calm and focused
  • A 30-day plan to make presence your default

It’s free to watch, and you can start today.

Watch the Becoming You Webinar

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